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Today we are covering:

 How do we Overcome Complacency?

We’re discussing how to overcome complacency in relationships by seeking God’s guidance through prayer and practical steps like open communication, appreciation, and intentional growth.

How Do We Overcome Complacency?

So, last week we discussed complacency in relationships and the dangers of it.

We acknowledged the difference between complacency and contentment and highlighted how complacency is not a place you want to be, especially in your relationship.

Let’s say after gathering this information we shared, you’ve found yourself complacent in your relationship.

How do you get out of it? 

No fear, P31thirty is here.

And with my MacBook and the Lord’s wisdom, I’m going to tell you how to overcome complacency. Let’s dive in.

We’ve all been complacent at one point or another.

The first thing we do to combat this is to pray!
Yes! Say it with me: PRAY!

Not second, not third, not sometimes first—always first.
So, we’re going to start by casting this complacency onto the Lord.

Actually, where are you right now? In your bed? On the couch? At your mama’s house? Let’s say a prayer RIGHT NOW.

Now, once we have prayed, cast our complacent habits on God, and have our heart posture correct, we can work on those habits and move past complacency with this practical advice.

First, Communicate Openly: 
Honest and open conversations about feelings, needs, and desires are essential. Address any issues of complacency together, sharing what each of you feels is lacking or could improve.

Then, Show Some Appreciation and Affection: 
Often, complacency can lead to taking each other for granted. Prioritize quality time and make a conscious effort to show appreciation for your partner through words and small gestures. Physical affection, kind words, or unexpected surprises can help rekindle the romance.

Next, Be Intentional with Growth:
Both partners should be committed to growing individually and as a couple. This might mean working on personal development, growing in faith together, or seeking advice from a mentor or counselor.

Then, Practice Forgiveness and Patience: 
Letting go of past disappointments is essential for moving forward. Commit to being patient and forgiving when frustrations arise, allowing space for improvement without resentment.

Finally, Pray Together: 
Remember when you prayed earlier by yourself? Now, do that with your boo. Invite God into your relationship so He can help break cycles of complacency. Pray together for renewed energy, love, and connection, and ask for wisdom in keeping the relationship strong.

You can break the bad habits of complacency and build a relationship that continues to grow and thrive! 

IN JESUS NAME, AMEN.

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