The Lord will Lead the way.

Alright, ladies. We’ve all been there, haven’t we?
The talking stage—aka the eternal limbo of modern dating, where you’re basically auditioning for the wife position and him for the husband role.

Let’s be real: the dating stage is fun, but it can also feel draining when it’s repetitive and doesn’t grow into something deeper. 

One day, you’re floating on cloud nine, exchanging sweet texts, and the next, that same person is blocked. 

If you’re ready to pack your bags, say “Peace out” to the dating phase,
and step into something a whole lot more secure (aka a relationship that’s aligned with God’s plan),
I’ve got you.

This isn’t just about locking down a status change on Facebook (does anyone even use that anymore?).
This is about something way bigger. It’s about stepping into a partnership that glorifies God and sets you up for long-term love, not the short-term, over-and-over-again stress.

Listen, if you’re dating just to pass the time or because you’re tired of being alone on Friday nights, we need to have a little chat. Dating without intention is like wandering around a mall with no idea what you’re looking for.

When I say “date with intention,” I don’t mean every date needs to be super serious,
like “Are we getting married or what?” But it does mean that your main focus should be on your relationship with God first. That’s right—seek the Kingdom first, along with character alignment with His principles.

“Well, what’s that got to do with dating, Nico?” Hear me out.

Before you even think about committing yourself to someone else, talk to God about it. I’m not talking about those “God, is this person for me?” prayers. Nah, we’re going deeper.

I’m talking about pouring into your relationship with your Heavenly Father so deeply that His desires become your desires.

You want clarity on who to date? Then girl, you need to get so aligned with God that you actually KNOW when He speaks to you. That doesn’t happen when you’re casually flipping through the Bible every couple of weeks, just hoping for a divine sign to pop up.

How are you supposed to know what God wants for you if you’re not actively in His Word?
If you’re just dating for the sake of it, you’re likely going to end up choosing someone based on your feelings and desires, not God’s will.

How are you supposed to trust Him with your heart if you don’t even know Him like that?

Start by spending daily time with God—reading the Bible, praying, and listening to what He’s saying to you.
Let Him guide your dating life, not your own timeline or desires.

When you make this shift, you’ll notice that dating will happen with more intention towards God’s will, and your change in character will increase the likelihood of finding your Kingdom spouse, relieving you of the “dating phase.”